Recently one of my clients, who is now in her dream career, was discussing with me during a session how she wanted to be part of a new cross-department committee, but when she suggested it, it wasn’t received well.
When she shared with me HOW she had made the request it sounded a bit like a bull in a china shop. We began to break down how she made the request and why it wasn’t received well.
How could she change how she asked in a way that shows the value of her being on the team?
Instead of her more direct and demanding request,how could she communicate the benefit to the company?
This is what having a voice at the table is about. When she went back and made her request again, following the steps we had laid out for her, she got on the committee.
Being an advocate for yourself and having your voice heard is the key to career advancement and success.
In order to advocate for yourself you need to:
The key to effectively advocating for yourself or others is tapping into your inner greatness and identifying exactly what you want. This awareness will allow you to not only live a more intentional life, but also to achieve your career goals.
Keep in mind, advocating means being assertive not aggressive. You need to stay calm, focused and unemotional. Keep the conversation focused on what you need and why you need it or why the cause matters, not on casting blame or criticizing others.
In order to advocate for yourself you need to understand two things - How to Quiet Your Inner Critic and Own Your Worth.
Do you allow the voice in your head that speaks all the negative talk to have center stage? This is only hurting your odds of using your own voice to ask for what you want. In order to step into the role and career you desire we need to reverse this negative self talk.
One of the ways I do this with my clients is by helping them to lean into their own values and own their worth. Throughout many aspects of your life and career being able to believe in yourself, articulate your value and own your worth is critically important.
Knowing that what you have to say and what you have to offer is valuable and matters goes a long way when you are in advocating mode. Think about this from the perspective of wanting to achieve a raise. You will need to be able to effectively communicate why you are deserving of a raise and show how you have benefited the organization and that your merits warrant more money. If you do not share your accomplishments and promote your value no one else will. This is advocating for yourself. This is leaning into your value and owning your worth. This is effectively and confidently communicating your professional story.
Remember: Being your own advocate isn’t just about managing your own workload—it’s about making sure you’re being the most effective, efficient, and valuable member of the team you can be. So be proactive, and you—and your boss—will be grateful in the long run.
I know speaking up, especially in the workplace can be difficult. It’s going to take practice and looking for opportunities every single day. To support you, here are 9 ways you can improve conversations in which you are advocating for yourself.
But, what there’s more…
Another part of being able to show up as your best self is taking care of yourself. Many times, I remind my clients to advocate for themselves to themselves. YOU need to be on the priority list. You need to take care of YOU so that you can be effective, productive and efficient. Hold yourself accountable for your own self care self-care.
Romy Weiss, CPCC, MBA
Your NextSteps Career Coach- Career Transitions & Professional/Life Coach, NextSteps Coaching & Consulting LLC
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